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Dating in Asia | Questions to Ask Asian Women
We all know for a fact that the only way we can come to an understanding with someone is if we communicate with them. While there are many forms of communication, we need to be aware of the things we say and how we say them.
In this case, when couples talk, they create a connection that becomes the foundation for a lasting relationship. Dating in Asia is no different. If you want to date Asian women, you need to know how to converse with them. A successful date depends on how much you know about their culture and how willing you are to develop a meaningful connection.
And to do that, well, you need to communicate.
While it’s easy to reach out to women on an Asian dating app, being on an actual date or communicating with one is a totally different ballgame. To ensure a successful date, go through the following basic questions and see how you can turn an otherwise normal conversation into a more meaningful one.
It also goes without saying that knowing what questions are appropriate to ask is just as important as knowing what questions you should avoid asking.
Here are some questions that you can ask Asian women:
What are you passionate about?
If you want to get to know your Asian date better, you may consider asking what her passions in life are. Understanding what she likes to do will definitely give you a glimpse of how she spends her day and what she does to achieve her goals.
If she does tell you about her passions, give supportive answers and ask follow-up questions to show that you’re interested to know more.
Asking this kind of question can also be a way for you to come up with some date ideas in the future in case your first one goes well. You might also get to talk about your hobbies and what you both do for fun. See how one simple question can lead to many more interesting subtopics?
What do you think makes a good relationship partner?
Some men tend to be direct when they ask women what it is they’re looking for in a relationship. Yes, it’s not ideal to put that kind of pressure on the lovely lady you’re with, but in this day and age, you can’t just safely assume that you have the same intentions in terms of the type of relationship you want to get into.
If you’re looking for a long term relationship or even marriage, then you need to know if she has the same end goal. Dating a woman who isn’t even considering the idea of a serious commitment is basically just a waste of your time.
If she gets offended, reassert that you don’t want a relationship now. Simply let her know what your intentions are and that you’re willing to go through the process if you’re both clear about what it is you want.
You should be able to tell if she’s looking for something serious even with a simple answer. If she’s not and you really like her, don’t force it. Just think about the time and effort you won’t have to spend or make after knowing that she isn’t planning on settling down in the near future.
Unless you’re looking for a short-term fling or casual hookup, there’s no sense in beating around the bush. Be upfront yet respectful when asking a question like this.
Women with sincere intentions will not be bothered by being asked about this. In fact, it will also let them know that you don’t plan on playing around. You’re both adults, so don’t overthink it.
What do you consider a weekend well spent?
Most couples spend their weekends going out on dates. It’s also when most people have their days off from work. As such, asking this will help you whip up some creative ways to spend a romantic weekend with her. The goal is to woo her and eventually get her to want to be in a relationship with you, right?
Now, how is this different from the first question?
It’s more specific. You are basically implying that you would like to spend a weekend with her and know how you can both have a good time.
It can be a form of motivation. If she says she likes to go trekking, consider getting into it so you can trek together someday. If she likes to go to the beach, plan a beach date. Remember that all of this depends on how your date goes. The questions you ask can serve as preparation for how you will spend your next few dates, aside from getting to know her, of course.
You’ll know if she’s interested. While most women love to talk about the things they enjoy, they also consider who they share that information with. With a good answer, you’ll be able to tell if she intends on spending a weekend with you or not.
What movies do you enjoy watching?
Imagine the many other topics you can talk about with this question. Just like with music, you can tell what kind of a person she is by knowing what kind of movies she’s into. Is she more of an action type? Does she enjoy the usual romantic comedy? What’s her take on crime documentaries?
Talking about movies is a fun way to know what you’re both into. Most of all (as you might have guessed already), it can be a great transition to asking her out again and going to see a movie together.
Do you have pets?
This is best asked if you have pets of your own. Find out as soon as possible if she’s an animal lover or not. Why? It speaks volumes about how she treats those around her in general, be it humans or animals.
You’ll be surprised to know that this will also come to matter a great deal if you plan on settling down together someday. That way, you’ll know if having pets is possible when you’re together as a couple.
Questions to Avoid Asking
Women in Asia are more of the conservative type compared to Latin and Eastern European women. They tend to get shy, but like all women, they’ll know if you have genuine intentions or not.
How? They will look at the way you present yourself, your manners, and most of all, the things you say (or won’t say). Don’t get yourself lost in thought by asking complicated questions that aren’t even interesting to begin with. Religion? Politics? Who you voted for?
Nothing will cost you your chances of making a good and lasting impression faster than saying the most boring or inappropriate thing. The same goes for the questions you intend on asking.
If you manage to start your date on the right foot, don’t lose focus and don’t let it get to your head. Some men have the tendency to get all aggressive once they notice that things are going well.
The following are some unsuitable topics to ask about when dating Asian women:
You’re there to get to know her, not console her. Aside from it being too personal, it’s pretty much uncalled for. No one wants to talk about their ex (that is if there is one, so don’t make any assumptions right away), let alone on a first date.
Plus, this is something that people choose to share about on their own, not a casual topic you can just ask about.
You can ask about each other’s jobs, but don’t start comparing your salaries or asking how much she makes for a living. Some men secretly want to know about this as they tend to feel emasculated if they learn that their potential love interest is earning more than they are. As a result, women might think you’re just sizing them up based on their salary, and not their personality and other innate qualities.
Anything about sex
Are you there for a one night stand? Did you meet up with her just so you can find out what her favorite sex position is? There’s tons of reasons why you shouldn’t talk about anything related to sex unless you both made it clear from the beginning that it’s the only thing you’re after.
What she wants to do next
If you haven’t seen enough parodies or heard enough jokes about this in your lifetime, take note of this right now: Women absolutely hate it when men turn to them for planning what to do, most especially on a date.
It doesn’t take a genius to know that women want men to take the lead. Aren’t you the one who asked her out? Aren’t you the one who’s courting her?
While some women find it fun to plan for dates together with a guy, keep in mind that it’s critical that you show that you know what you’re doing at the onset of your romantic connection.
Other undesirable questions to ask include:
Do you live alone?
Tell me about yourself.
Is it that time of the month?
How old are you?
Do you have kids?
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